The past few months have been a little crazy. Life as we normally know it has been quite a bit different. Work has been super stressful for me (for a million reasons I don't even want to begin typing up on here) and Erik hurt his back. When I say hurt his back, I mean h-u-r-t it.
In December he thought he threw his back out lifting weights. He continued to be active in the week that followed and things just got worse and worse and worse. He went to the chiropractor, who ended up referring him back to his primary care physician. After trying various treatments of medication and rest with no improvement, Erik had an MRI of his back and found out that he has an extremely herniated disc in his back. This meant a new referral to a physical therapy/ pain management place, a epidural in his back (that wore off a week later), and finally ANOTHER referral to a neurosurgeon. Because of nerve damage that was happening (he lost his reflexes in his achilles and his toes were going numb) and because of the pain day in and day out, Erik opted for surgery. Fast-forward another few weeks and the surgery is complete and Erik is on the road to recovery.
It was about three months from time of injury to time of surgery. During that time, Erik walked around like an old man and could barely move. Walking was out of the question, sitting was limited, standing was bearable for a little while. He absolutely couldn't pick up the kids. He couldn't even put on his socks (It's a good thing I have a lot of practice putting socks on other people). It was especially tough with him being a stay at home dad who also watched two other small boys on a daily basis, but Erik was a real trooper and managed to make it work up until a week and a half before his surgery. Surgery was not the desired outcome, but the only other option was for Erik is be bed ridden for another 9-12 months while his body naturally did the same thing the surgery did.
Surgery was scheduled for Tuesday March 13 at Huntington Memorial Hospital. He went it for surgery ahead of schedule and everything went smoothly. After surgery Erik spent the night in the hotel, I mean hospital. (It's such a nice hospital it's hard to tell the difference. He could even order room service from a fancy menu whenever he felt like it throughout the day!) I stayed with him throughout the day and Jonah and I went by the next morning and stayed with him until be was discharged. I took the rest of the week off work to take care of him and the kids. So that I could go back to work, Erik's parent's came down for a few days to watch the kids and help Erik out and my cousin Billi was awesome and helped out when Erik's parents had to go home. The next week, I ended up staying home another two days (J had the stomach flu) and my dad took a day off. Then, it was off to spring break for us while Erik stayed behind recovering.
I am so thankful that we have such an amazing family and set of friends. There is no way I could have managed this multi month ordeal without their support. My mom and dad were especially amazing, constantly picking up the extra slack and doing it with a smile :o) Don't worry, some day when you're old and feeble we will be paying you back. In the meantime, we are looking forward to Erik getting back to normal. Hopefully, he will be up and running by the summer, able to once again have an active lifestyle.
